Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Maud Muller: A Portrait of my Great-great-grandmother



I have this print hanging in my living room. It is the work of my great-great-grandfather, J. Howard Collier  (see his Little Bo Peep and a print of the BVM "after J. Howard Collier."  More of his original work is privately owned, much by my family). The model is his wife, Nancy. The title of the portrait is "Maud Muller." It was chosen by Whittier as the first prize winner in an illustration contest in 1863. Interestingly, there was some sort of Act of Congress involved according to the text on the print--perhaps copyright matters?  One would think Congress too busy that year for matters as trivial as art.  Or, perhaps, Congress understood its true limited function.  In any case, despite Google searches, this is the only image of this Maud Muller I could find, and it predates the others.  And I rather like it.

I just realized that it reminds me of Annika in As You Like It:




This image is more common:

Several of the other prints of Maud do include that rake that leans behind her.  I do not think that my great-great-grandfather got the perspective of his rake quite right, but his wife will always be the Maud Muller to us.


Here is the poem:

Maud Muller, on a summer's day,
Raked the meadow sweet with hay.


Beneath her torn hat glowed the wealth
Of simple beauty and rustic health.


Singing, she wrought, and her merry glee
The mock-bird echoed from his tree.


But when she glanced to the far-off town,
White from its hill-slope looking down,


The sweet song died, and a vague unrest
And a nameless longing filled her breast,—

A wish that she hardly dared to own,
For something better than she had known.


The Judge rode slowly down the lane,
Smoothing his horse's chestnut mane.


He drew his bridle in the shade
Of the apple-trees to greet the maid,


And ask a draught from the spring that flowed
Through the meadow across the road.


She stooped where the cool spring bubbled up,
And filled for him her small tin cup,

And blushed as she gave it, looking down
On her feet so bare, and her tattered gown.


"Thanks!" said the Judge; "a sweeter draught
From a fairer hand was never quaffed."


He spoke of the grass and flowers and trees,
Of the singing birds and the humming bees;


Then talked of the haying, and wondered whether
The cloud in the west would bring foul weather.


And Maud forgot her brier-torn gown
And her graceful ankles bare and brown;

And listened, while a pleased surprise
Looked from her long-lashed hazel eyes.


At last, like one who for delay
Seeks a vain excuse, he rode away.


Maud Muller looked and sighed: "Ah me!
That I the Judge's bride might be!


"He would dress me up in silks so fine,
And praise and toast me at his wine.


"My father should wear a broadcloth coat;
My brother should sail a painted boat.

"I'd dress my mother so grand and gay,
And the baby should have a new toy each day.


"And I'd feed the hungry and clothe the poor,
And all should bless me who left our door."


The Judge looked back as he climbed the hill,
And saw Maud Muller standing still.


"A form more fair, a face more sweet,
Ne'er hath it been my lot to meet.


"And her modest answer and graceful air
Show her wise and good as she is fair.

"Would she were mine, and I to-day,
Like her, a harvester of hay:


"No doubtful balance of rights and wrongs,
Nor weary lawyers with endless tongues,


"But low of cattle and song of birds,
And health and quiet and loving words."


But he thought of his sisters proud and cold,
And his mother vain of her rank and gold.


So, closing his heart, the Judge rode on,
And Maud was left in the field alone.

But the lawyers smiled that afternoon,
When he hummed in court an old love-tune;


And the young girl mused beside the well,
Till the rain on the unraked clover fell.


He wedded a wife of richest dower,
Who lived for fashion, as he for power.


Yet oft, in his marble hearth's bright glow,
He watched a picture come and go;


And sweet Maud Muller's hazel eyes
Looked out in their innocent surprise.

Oft, when the wine in his glass was red,
He longed for the wayside well instead;


And closed his eyes on his garnished rooms
To dream of meadows and clover-blooms.


And the proud man sighed, with a secret pain,
"Ah, that I were free again!


"Free as when I rode that day,
Where the barefoot maiden raked her hay."


She wedded a man unlearned and poor,
And many children played round her door.

But care and sorrow, and childbirth pain,
Left their traces on heart and brain.


And oft, when the summer sun shone hot
On the new-mown hay in the meadow lot,


And she heard the little spring brook fall
Over the roadside, through the wall,


In the shade of the apple-tree again
She saw a rider draw his rein.


And, gazing down with timid grace,
She felt his pleased eyes read her face.

Sometimes her narrow kitchen walls
Stretched away into stately halls;


The weary wheel to a spinet turned,
The tallow candle an astral burned,


And for him who sat by the chimney lug,
Dozing and grumbling o'er pipe and mug,


A manly form at her side she saw,
And joy was duty and love was law.


Then she took up her burden of life again,
Saying only, "It might have been."

Alas for maiden, alas for Judge,
For rich repiner and household drudge!


God pity them both! and pity us all,
Who vainly the dreams of youth recall.


For of all sad words of tongue or pen,
The saddest are these: "It might have been!"


Ah, well! for us all some sweet hope lies
Deeply buried from human eyes;


And, in the hereafter, angels may
Roll the stone from its grave away!

Thursday, February 17, 2011

My Dad Died Last Month

And that was all I was going to write about that.  Day after day, I thought I might just post that and let it sit.

Then I thought I'd post Milne's King John's Christmas, but it's quite long (thus, I chose a link instead) as a sort of tribute to my father.  Like the king in the poem, my father had an odd relationship with people, but loved toys.

I keep thinking of things I'd like to tell him.

I keep recalling very funny things we enjoyed together.  My dad was an animal lover, and, since we were not allowed pets in Boston, he often acquired animals for my cousins.  My favorite were the two small alligators he bought and kept in the bathtub overnight.  He told tales of the snapping turtle he kept as a kid, and was eventually forced to release in the Neponset River.

We had German shepherds when I was a teen.  I loved going to dog shows with him.



RIP Dad.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Tail of the Christmas Duck

Bet you thought this might be a recipe.  Nope.

When our dog Indy was a pup, he has a toy rooster that would make that annoying rooster noise whenever anyone went near it.  He loved that toy, and it lasted for years, until he finally tore it up one day after a seam split.

Circe, our three year old "puppy" (Indy is nearly 10 years her senior) had no such toy, but as Christmas approached, I grew nostalgic for dog toys of old.  I searched in vain for an identical rooster, but, alas, no rooster was to be found.  Instead, I found this charming AKC approved duck.  I thought that this might be fun for Circe, and perhaps even for us all, as Circe is a sweet, good-natured dog who loves to play.  But Circe was terrified.

Now, the duck was not a formidable thing at all, and really did not resemble an actual duck in any way.  For one thing, it was smaller.  It had artificial fur, rather like that of a teddy bear, fur and fabric wings, and yellow bill.  It sported feet of bright orange felt.  When squeezed in just the right way, in the general vicinity of its pelvis (if it had one), it would faintly rasp out a sound that was supposed to be a "quack" or something.   Yet, the very mention of the duck would send Circe cringing to a corner, or under a table, far from the offending imitation anseriform.  (I'd say she would tuck her tail, but as she is an Australian shepherd, she has none to tuck.)  She even sought refuge with T, who, bless him, is the one person in the house of whom she is a bit wary (she is a wise dog).  When T was of no use, she climbed behind him--all 45 pounds of her--up onto the the back of his recliner to escape the vicious newcomer.



Later that day, things changed.  Circe suddenly loved the duck.  It became her puppy.  She carried it everywhere, hid it from us, and licked it constantly.  The duck became a sopping mess of dog drool.  Parental love lasted about three days.

Then, we discovered two small felt feet on the floor.  The feet had been chewed neatly off and left together.  The wings were next, first the right, later the left.  Stuffing was everywhere.  The duck's "vocal" apparatus, a series of plastic bits and gauze that resembled trachea tubes, was released from its fluffy bondage.  Don took one of the tubes and blew through it (it sounds more authentic when not muffled in the body of the duck), and we now have a perfectly usable dog calling device.

And Circe always responds.

Monday, December 27, 2010

Slàinte mhòr, and St. John!

A took a turn at shoveling



T gets power for the electric shovel. Note Jayne Cobb hat.




The lights come on in our village.

In the bleak midwinter...or, not so bleak. It was pretty, but we all needed to work to get the snow out of the way. We got well over a foot, though the drifts are deceptive. It was not too heavy, but it was not too light, either. Poor snow for a snowball fight, yet it stayed put when shoveled. And the young ones reminded me last night to put the car nearer to the street than to the garage, for to minimize the clearing of the driveway.

They got the job done, and T drove the car into the street. He had never driven in snow before that moment, and getting the car back into the driveway proved too much, so Don took care of it, demonstrating his greatest skill--driving uphill in reverse. T's Jayne Cobb hat, made by his mother (who rarely knits) kept the cold off the head wound T acquired at school (which is quite nicely healed). More on T soon. Big changes to his plans are in the works.

Meanwhile, I was inside fixing a beef stew for the shovelers' dinner. And since today is St. John's I opened a bottle of wine--a glass for the stew, and a glass for the cook. Tonight we drink slàinte mhòr and St. John!

Last night, a friend came over from his house, three blocks in the direction in the photo, during the snowfall. Somewhere between there and here, he dropped his iPhone. We have yet to find it. St. Anthony?

So, Christmas is lovely here in NY, just outside the City, and all the kids are home, at least for now.

Sunday, August 15, 2010

On Sending a Second Child Off to College: Updated

T the actor as "Comus" in Milton's Comus


T the hiker



T the cellist



T the cyclist


T the graduate


Not that he's going far, but he will be living away from home. T begins his freshman year at The Webb Institute tomorrow. I guess we'll kind of miss him, but his school is only a few miles away--closer than L's, and she is close enough to commute.

So today we are deciding what he will take with him. Since the students live in an old Gold Coast mansion--The Braes--in large rooms (unlike the tiny rooms at L's school), he can bring more than she did. So, his recliner? Probably. Computer, books, his cello...sure. Somehow, he just does not seem to have as much "stuff" as she did. Laundry, laundry, laundry. That's pretty much it. Oh, and some safety items, including protective eye-wear, steel-toed boots, and a hardhat. Odd equipment for most college freshmen, but Webb is a different sort of college.

Somehow, it seems easier with the second one. I'll post photos, and let you know how it goes tomorrow. Maybe it'll be awful, but I doubt it. He has been ready to go for a while.

Update: He just packed his baseball mitt...I might cry.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Paul's Confirmation

We were very blessed to have Bishop Murphy celebrate the sacrament of Confirmation in the Extraordinary Form! Paul took the name Thomas, and my brother Tom was his sponsor.
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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Quick Family Updates

T can ride his bike very far. Nearly 50 miles far, so far, in an afternoon.

P and A are working on the latest Front Lawn Players production, As You Like It:



Libby is busy preparing for finals and juries.

I have two articles to write for Mater et Magistra. Subscribe here.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Nature Club Info for Families

Here's a nifty freebie from the Children and Nature Network: A downloadable (pdf) "toolkit" for families who want to start a family nature club. From their website:

C&NN Nature Clubs for Families Tool Kit: Do It Yourself! Do It Now! provides inspiration, information, tips and resources for those who are—or who might be—interested in creating a Nature Club for Families.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Together Again, In The Green Room


Libby and Trip have not performed together in several years. This was a fun reunion, as alumna Libby re-joined the NY Young Musicians' Ensemble to help out the cello section, where Trip is principal. They had a great concert, in Lincoln Center, and Libby got a ride home out of the deal.

ETA: The both look so grim in this photo. I assure you, it is reaction to mom taking too many photos, not reaction to music performances!
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Saturday, February 14, 2009

Happy Birthday Grannie Annie!




My mum (standing, far right) is having a significant birthday today--I won't tell you how significant, but it's a big one!
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Sunday, January 11, 2009

The Kitchen in Action

Trip tries his hand at eggs, and does well, which just goes to prove that children who are cooking-deprived as children can develop the skills required to excel in the kitchen as late as teen-hood.

Cleaning, however, has a very narrow learning window...oh well.
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Monday, December 29, 2008

Best Gift This Year


Whoonu, a Cranium game, which is fast, fun, and perfect for 4 players of all ages. The kids have been having a blast playing the game. A round only takes about 10 minutes. The object is to figure out what things, listed on cards, a player likes best. It's simple and fun, portable (comes in a tin), and engaging--all the best attributes of a great family game.

Hey, once the kitchen is done, I think we'll toss that couch...
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Saturday, November 29, 2008

Because my Mother Reads my Blog...

I thought I'd feature her in photos for the day:













(And here is the link to the photos from Gretchen's wedding, Mom...)
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Wednesday, November 26, 2008

I Am Grilling the Turkey

Yes...I mean, no, my stove is not hooked up yet, but the turkey will be cooked! I primed the grill last night (in other words, I made sure it was working) and I have all the ingredients, sufficient propane, and the weather looks like it will hold (high 40s).

Anyone else done this?

Pies will be cooked tonight. Bread pudding will cook during dinner, so it's hot for serving. Side dishes are coming with the guests. Libby (home for the long weekend!) is in charge of the stuffing--apple 'n' onion stuffing--and giblet gravy.

We'll have wine, and egg nog. Brie...crackers, chips, salsa, guacamole. Am I missing anything?

Ah. Music. There will be music. And it'll be live. Happy Thanksgiving!!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Strange Days, Indeed

My father voted for the first time in his life. Sure, he had threatened to vote before, but he had never voted until yesterday.

Libby voted for the first time, as well.

Some people may celebrate the victory of the first black president as a landmark in history, but I prefer the family history. Yay, Dad and Libby!

Next election, we will have two more voters in the family. Maybe we can begin to turn things around again, so that we cast our votes by looking not at the color of a candidate's skin, but at the content of his or her character.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

A Great Day to have a Baby!

I did it 15 years ago, and a friend had her new baby today! I hope she posts pictures soon.


Here's my 15 year old "baby" having cake at Grannie's house today:



And fencing over the summer:

Happy birthday, Annika!


Saturday, September 13, 2008

My Brother Pete Came By

We met up with him at a pub called "Trinity." Well, at least his girlfriend looks good!



We drove to my brother Tom's house, where Pete played "babaloo" and put his feet on the table. I wonder what great-great-great grandfather Robert Faulkner (pictured in portrait) would have thought. He and Pete seem to have similar hairstyles.



Tom and his lovely wife played music, and we sang.




Annika contemplates bar tending.




Pete plays a round of our favorite game: Make Trip Laugh. (Similar to the long-running game show, Make Joan Baez Smile)




We have a winner! During the "Speed Dial" round, in which the contestant must press a random button on a cell phone that is handed to him, Pete got our mother, who was on her way to Alaska, on the phone (she was sleeping in Seattle). With encouragement from Paul, Pete pretended to be Trip as he asked "Grannie" to come home now and make him a cake. Yes, he made Trip (and the rest of us) laugh!